So my mom booked a plane ride for the very next day, my girlfriend who was in another state drove up with her family. She stood right in front of my building when I was getting ready to leave to catch my plane. All she did was stare and not say one word to me. When I boarded the plane I saw her there too but once again no words came out of her mouth.
Sounds like you are not on the same page (different states) and although she has strong feelings about your situation, she is unable to express them–maybe for fear of upsetting you. Perhaps you should encourage her to tell you how she feels .