Flirting Dream Meaning and Interpretations


Flirting Dream Symbol – Dreaming about flirting with someone indicates that there is a strong attraction in your life. If in your dream you are flirting with someone else, but they are not flirting with you in return, it might mean that they are not attracted to you. If you dream that they are flirting with you then it means that they definitely like you, though be careful because they may just want a superficial relationship and not a serious one.

If you dream that you are both flirting with each other, it means that there is definitely an attraction, even if you are unwilling to admit it to yourself. In fact, it might be beneficial to try to have a relationship with that person.

Additional Flirting Dreams

Flirting in a dream can represent a flamboyant way of life. This warns that if you continue this way there will be dire consequences. This can be a sign of boredom. Get out and try some things new. Being smart enough to see through someone’s flattery reflects your own wisdom.

Someone flirting with you can mean you crave an intimate relationship with someone. You can have this type of dream before making a long-term commitment to someone.

Dreaming your partner flirts with another can mean you are feeling mentally and emotionally detached from your partner. Do you struggle with communication in the relationship? Or, do you think you are not good enough for the relationship? It is time to sit down and sort these issues out.

Flattery Dreams

When you experience flattery in a dream it is a sign there is someone in your waking life trying to manipulate you in some way. There is someone close to you who is insincere in all they do and say. Be wary of those who push a friendship on to you. Take a step back and remain on alert.

Flattery can also be about making false promises and telling lies to make someone or something look better than it is. This could be to get money or support from you. Try to avoid falling for another’s lies.

Note: If you have had a dream related to this dream symbol or would like to add something that is related to this topic please leave a comment below. Comments are a great way to interact with others who are dreaming about similar topics.


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Stephen is a self confessed dream junkie that loves all things dream related. He is a writer for Dream Stop and has been working in the field of dreams for the past decade. He believes that the YOU are the only person who can truly understand the meaning of your dreams. You have to look inside your inner thoughts to find the hidden truths in your dream. These interpretations are for entertainment purposes only. Stephen's interpretations should be considered an opinion, not professional advice.


  1. Hannah Strout on

    My dream was that I was at cheer camp laying in my bed facing the wall and this guy came in and layed on the bed facing me and started playing with my hair how couple do and then my coach came in and kicked him out and yelled at me but once I told her he was just playing with my hair and I told him he wasn’t supposed to be there she just said ok and told me I could leave if I didn’t want anything else . I’m super confused about this because I’ve never even thought about having romantic intentions with this guy but I’m confused also because I wasn’t even participating I was just letting him.

    • The guy playing with your hair represent the purest of joy and happiness. Nothing sexual. The coach coming in represents the “possible” strict family life style you either have and don’t want or don’t have and want. The guy itself is meaningless but would mostly make a good friend to have around. Becareful about sexual advances, “your dream” believes this guy would be only good a”really fun Friendship”.

  2. I dreamed that I was walking & flirting with my ex husband I recently divorced, but he is not flirting back and he’s just walking beside me.

  3. I had a dream where I was with this guy who in real life, is a friend of mine, and we just talk occasionally. But in my dream, I was hugging him from the back and he smiled while I whispered in his ear about how I should buy something for his birthday.
    Then we entered in to my family’s mansion and he held my hand and I, then, made him wrap his hand around my shoulders.
    This dream was strange, honestly, because I have a girlfriend yet she wasn’t there in my dream. And also because, even though I know that guy, we never really talked much, just like hi bye and cracked a little jokes here and there.

  4. I drmt about a boy i had in my class back in 8th std it has been 7years . I nvr noticed him or talked to him i didn evn like him. I saw him today in my dream flirting with me. He was there outside my house trying to get in and i was forcing him out. Strange dream i guess!!!

  5. I had a dream of my best friend that lives in a different state then I. He was flirting with me and touching my thigh and stuff. I wasn’t flirting back, but the weird thing is that I felt tingling feeling in my stomach. What does this mean, I don’t have feelings for this person though.

    • Your subconscious is trying to tell you you need an escape from your current life style. You may be frustrated or mad at your current relationship or lack of. If you feel it’s appropriate, take some time off your current relationship or if not dating, meet with someone and start.

  6. I dreamt that there was a competition in school then this guy announced that he likes me during their speech and I was like “??!!!?!?!?!?????” then he started pursuing me then eventually we started going out idk I felt “home” and security with that guy. I don’t even know who he was. It was so weird I had these feelings towards him.

  7. I dreamt sometime unknown was flirting with me and I wanted to be polite but I wasn’t into it and I was aware I had I boyfriend.

  8. I don’t really know in myself or what I’m supposed to do. I always dreamt I was flirting by beautiful ladies and I’m flirting them but sometimes I dream that I’m a guy doing such man’s desire. Dreaming about this doesn’t help me to be sociable, I felt shy and weirdo when I was looking at girls or they staring at me that makes me uncomfortable for me. Em I being a yuri like being a lesbian real life?

  9. I’ve had a dream that I went to heaven and I was talking to God and I looked over my shoulder and the person who I’ve loved was standing in tears saying “I’m sorry for hurting you and never meant to” and we ended up running away for some reason and we couldn’t stop flirting , we were also chased by people but always escaped what does this mean ?

  10. I dream that we’re flirting each other but she is like more into it. She is really sexy and we used to really flert but never kissed. And sometimes in dreams it gets really hot and horny but no kiss or sex. And then when we’re just about to kiss in dream I suddenly find myself kissing someone else…

  11. A couple weeks ago I had met this girl at a party , we didn’t really talk but her friend was talking to me saying I looked familiar and then they whispered something and were laughing, so we’re just chilling and I feel that there looking at me while we’re smoking hooka and I’m playing beer pong, but soon after we leave the party and say bye. A couple days past to the point where I seen her on Facebook and added her, but just recently added her on Instagram and just thought about her but I had this dream same day that she was talking to me, conversating how we were doing then go walk in the park but next day another dream that we are in a car and she’s coming on to me flirting and kissing me so what’s that mean ??

  12. I had a dream that both of us were flirting with each other, but the thing is that i never saw her.

  13. An older man was flirting with me during lunch in front of his family but then he said that he wouldn’t have time to be with me most of the time so he apologized and disappeared.
    In waking life I have a boyfriend.

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