Dreaming about an Ex – What it Really Means

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“I dreamt about my Ex!”  Dreaming about an ex is a common dream that often occurs when you are in a committed relationship, going through a breakup or entering a new relationship. It is important to understand the whole context of the dream before you try and know the meaning.

Dreaming of your ex may show that you have unresolved feelings towards that person. Dreams about ex-lovers are quite common for individuals who have gone through painful breakups and still have lingering feelings.

What Does It Mean When You Dream About An Ex?

More times than not, dreaming about an ex (boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife) does not necessarily mean that you are still in love with them. Often your mind will be revisiting the period in your life when you were with this individual. Your dream is visiting feelings and hopes that are connected with your ex. If you are dreaming of being in your twenties and married for the first time, your mind is recreating that happy experience and memory that you had in those years.

Ex-lovers in a dream can often become a symbol of hope for love that may be currently missing in your waking life.”

Dreaming about an ex can be the subconscious minds way of remembering certain qualities that your ex-partner had that your current relationship is missing. Maybe you had an ex-boyfriend that was great with your family, while your current boyfriend is cold toward others. Certain qualities and traits that are missing in your current relationship can often show up in a dream to fill this void. You may or may not have feelings for your ex, but usually, people dream about certain qualities about an ex rather than an ex themselves.

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Dream about an exPeople who are often going through stressful times in their lives will often dream of a period when life was “more straightforward.” Sometimes that period will be represented with an ex. When you are in an unsatisfying relationship, your subconscious will sometimes revisit a happier period of your life in a dream.

“Just because you dream about an ex-does not necessarily mean you are still in love with them.”

This is often the case when you have a dream of your first love. Usually, these dreams will bring you back to a place in time when the responsibilities of adulthood didn’t interfere with your freedom. This dream might be telling you that you need to recapture some of the lost vitality of your youth that was once present in your relationships.

Read This: 11 Reasons Why You Have Dreams About Your Ex

Sometimes seeing an ex in a dream represents the return of a bad habit or bad problem. You might have been in a physically or mentally abusive relationship before. It is important to try and work out these feelings that you may have towards your ex to have a healthy relationship in the future.

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You Might Still Miss Your Ex

Sometimes the meaning of dreaming about an ex is the answer that nobody wants to hear – you still miss your ex. Dreaming about getting back together with an ex or wanting to get back together with your ex can be a sign that you still have feelings for that individual. This might be a wish fulfillment dream that is occurring because of your long desire to get back with an ex.

Dreams of Ex

It is quite often to dream about an ex-proposing or even marrying an ex-boyfriend or lover. While many people believe that the dream is expressing their real feelings to you, the truth is these are usually a reflection of your feelings that are projected into your dream. Dreaming about an ex will often mean that you miss certain characteristics or aspects of the relationship.

Read more about Relationship Dreams HERE

Your Dream Is Helping You Deal With Past Emotions

When it comes to healing the mind and body, humans have natural mechanisms that allow us to experience physical and emotional pain and get over it. While you might find it extremely difficult to get over an ex if your conscious mind is constantly thinking about them, your subconscious mind will often use dreams to help process some of the emotions and thoughts that are built up inside of you.

For example, you might have ended your relationship without actually expressing how you felt about your partner. People who have a lot of built feelings towards someone might have a dream about confronting an ex and telling them what they actually felt inside about the relationship. Even though these confrontations or expressions of one’s feelings take place in the dream world, they are therapeutic and help us deal with a lot of pain and hurt.

Leaving a Relationship (After a Breakup)

If you have recently gone through a breakup with your ex, there is a good chance that they will visit you in your dreams. Dreaming about your ex after you have broken up does not mean you are meant to be together. Usually, it means your subconscious is trying to clean up some of the past issues that you might have towards this person. Dreaming about an ex can also say that you have certain unresolved feelings or issues towards this person that you haven’t dealt with. If they are constantly in your mind and your thoughts throughout your waking state, chances are you will have dreams about them at night.

Entering a New Relationship

If you just start dating someone new, then there is a good chance that you might have dreams about your old partner. Dreams about an ex- partner may signify that your psyche is trying to figure out the positives and negatives of your new partner in contrast with your old partner. If you have these dreams while entering a new relationship, it is important to look at the dream and try and find out what the dream means.

Are you are convinced that you are meant to be with your ex? It is important to remember that you broke up for a reason. Getting back together will not solve these issues unless you change the root of the problem. This book by Mike Fiore, the creator of best selling “Text Your Romance Back Into Your Life,” is a great option for people who are looking to get the romance back into their lives.

Since the bonds of a long lasting relationship are often deeply wired into our subconscious mind, they can often manifest themselves into a dream. This is why you should never be surprised if you still have dreams about an ex that you cared even if you start a new relationship. This is normal and it is part of the healing process. The mind has its way of dealing with emotional bonds that we still hold on to. Think of it as therapy for your subconscious mind.

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Dreaming about an Ex while in a Relationship

Dreaming about an ex while you are dating someone new is a common dream that occurs. There are a few situations that will usually cause these dreams to happen.

Situation #1: You are in a healthy and fulfilling relationship, and you start having dreams about your ex. – These dreams will often leave us feeling guilty because we feel like we are cheating on our partner. Usually, these dreams are the subconscious way of clearing out some old baggage or issues that you might have to your previous relationship. Think of it as a natural way of healing your mind from old wounds.

Situation #2: You are currently involved in a relationship that is not satisfying you and leaving you wanting more – People who end up marrying someone they aren’t in love with or fall out of love with will often have dreams about their exes. Dreaming of an ex when you are in an unhappy relationship or marriage is your minds way of telling you that it might be time to move on.

Situation #3:You are entering a new relationship, and your ex is still fresh in your mind from a previous breakup. Your mind is often trying to contrast the two partners and identify some of the qualities that you wish to avoid or have in your new partner.

Does Dreaming about an Ex-meaning I’m Still in Love with Him/Her?

text your ex backJust because you dream about an ex-partner does not necessarily mean you are still in love with them. It can say you are still in love, but more often than not it means your subconscious mind is showing you qualities and characteristics about your ex that you are missing in your current relationship. It is important to analyze specific details about the dream like what happened to you and how did the dream end.

Certain aspects in the dream can give you clues that can help you uncover the meaning of your dream. Most dreams end up being more symbolic in their meaning and not literal. Often dreams about an ex-lover are directed at healing whatever emotional wounds or feelings that you still have towards that person. It is important to remember that these dreams are no signs telling you to get back with an ex, but rather a process that your subconscious uses to help get over your ex and move on.

If you have ever had a cheating dream make sure you read this article: Cheating Dreams – What They Mean

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Stephen is a self confessed dream junkie that loves all things dream related. He is a writer for Dream Stop and has been working in the field of dreams for the past decade. He believes that the YOU are the only person who can truly understand the meaning of your dreams. You have to look inside your inner thoughts to find the hidden truths in your dream. Stephen's interpretations should be considered an opinion, not professional advice.

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  1. I’ve been with my actual partner for 11 yrs and 9 dreaming with my ex husband I’m usually getting back together with him or he’s just hanging around in the back of my dream like just sitting there watching me,am I wrong cause I don’t feel like I’m doing anything bad I don’t think about him during the day at all,just in my dreams!!!!???

  2. I’m 18 now and have been in a relationship for a little under three years and I’m still dreaming about my first love, he’s constantly on my mind and the harder thing is that he lives round the corner from my current boyfriend, so we’re always bumping into each other. We got on really well after our break up, we’d still go hang out with a group of people, have a few drinks and what not, but since we’ve both been in long term relationships now, I’ve been having more and more dreams about him. It always feels so real, I wake up with the same butterflies he gave me when we were together. I just don’t understand why this is happening it’s been well over 5 years since we split. We met up a couple times, just as mates. We’d just sit and chill down on a field and talk but even not in my dreams I still had urges to kiss him. I’m 18 now and me and my ex broke up when I was about 13, I know I was really young then. But because I’m still thinking about him now, I really don’t know what to think. I don’t know if I’m still in love with him or if I just miss the memories we had. I still get all shy and flustered when we bump into each other. Last night I had a dream that we were seeing each other on the down low as we were both still with our current partners in this dream. He held my hand, kissed me, wrapped his arms round me from behind and when he was speaking to me it was about things going on today…I woke up with butterflies, I could still feel his soft lips pushing against mine. I’m so confused with it all this is about the 5th or 6th dream I’ve had about him recently. It’s hard because I feel guilty towards my current boyfriend that I’m dreaming about my ex. ( they hate each other because my ex tried getting me not to be with my current boyfriend) it was one of those I don’t want to be with you but no one else can have you.

  3. Okay I’m sleeping and I get woke up by my hisband. Moaning and just mumbling then I start to hear some what sounedvto be like sex noises that men make then I hear him call out oh Loretta and more noises he did this twice in 10 minutes I’m a little upset that I’m his wife and not once has he ever called out my name in his dreams and he tells me he has sex dreams but can’t remember well he says he can’t remember and I’m a little hurt that he would do this I know u can’t control but dreams I woke him up the first time he said it but then 10 min later again why is he dreaming about this ex of his when he has me his wife does this mean he dnt wanna be my husband he wants her does it mean he wants out of our marriage I know married couples have problems but we dnt have sex problems. Sorry but our sex life is great but I’m a little confused about this and I hate to put him on blast but some times he wakes up and has to change his boxers cause he well u know in his sleep and he says he dnt know why can any one help me I think maybe he wants someone different or I’m not good enough for his sex life what can I do

  4. I broke up with my only love about a year ago I was very emotional at first because we were living together, everything was great, and one day she just left she said she couldn’t really figure out why except that she no longer wanted to be in a relationship, this really scarred my emotional side because we were talking about being together forever, I deeply loved her and treated her better than I treat myself sometimes, I paid close attention to detail and did everything that I should have done. We have not talked since we split but I continue to have extremely lucid realistic dreams of everyday life, I’ve spent thousands of dollars seeing different doctors and counsellors and therapy both individual and group, but even a year later I wake up after a lucid dream that seems to last weeks, expecting her to be in bed with me but I know she is not or ever will be, I just can’t seem to find physical attraction to any women now even ones more beautiful then her that have shown interest in me since that breakup but I know deep down the reason is because she did things for me no other human ever has including my own family. It’s rough investing your all in somone, I’m very afraid I’ll never be able to fully love somone again because I still love her so much

    • You sound like an absolutely amazing boyfriend. And you will love again. Someone who is capable of such thought and care to someone else will always be desired and when the time is right and with the right person it will happen. I went through a tremendous heart break that ultimately changed me for the better. Honest.

    • Hi Ben, I’ve got almost the same story here. The only diff. is that we’re still together but somehow I know or probably may have the idea when he will leave. We’ve been living together for running 9 yrs. Can’t put in detail but I can imagine what you’re going through. Let’s just hope for the best & always put our Creator above all. I am not a religious person however i believe that though at times we don’t find him giving us answer immediately but still he’s with us. Prayers – the most powerful tool chiefly when you are at your weakest point.

  5. hi this is cedric actually this is the first time I read an article about dreaming an ex. actually I do have a child now and I often dream about my ex girlfriend and Im to confuse to make up in my mind what is the meaning of that .Im to confuse if Im still in love with her or it’s just a dream thx 🙁 too sad this time

  6. I had a dream about my ex during a zombie apocalypse. The dream included me longing for him after he said he was going to kill some zombies and then he just didn’t come back. After that I was like I guess he’s dead. And I continued to be so super scared while he was not with me, which is weird because I broke up with him last year. It was a rough break up and I definitely do not still like him. What do you guys think?

  7. I had a dream of my ex husband waiting for me in the walk way to the house, but instead of a house a beautiful tree…..

    Married for 34 years….we finally ended…

    not on a happy note…

    he continued on to another relationship…I suppose men can do that…

    I do not believe at my age….I can!…

    I dream less of him…..a good…thing…..

    would like to move on myself….

    thanks for your input on dissecting dreams!

    • What a jerk. I bet it makes you feel like a waste of 34 years. You feel betrayed and hurt that he could move on so fast.

      Been there and its ruined my trust with men.

      I’d rather be single now than trust another man again.

  8. Me and my ex were together for over 2 years, I know it isn’t that long but he was my first proper relationship that ended really badly. I never got to break up with him face to face, I had to do it over the phone (we lived over an hour away from each other). For the next 2-3 months after that we were still in contact, he wanted me back and said he had changed which I knew he hadn’t and I’ve taken him back so many times before, but this was the last time, I was done with him. I finally realised that I had to lose all contact with him because I was giving him false hope that we would get back together. No matter how much he hurt me, I couldn’t bear the thought of hurting him by staying in contact & letting him think he had a chance again when I knew I wouldn’t be going back ever. So I told him that we can no longer talk anymore, that I was giving him false hope that we would be getting back together and that I didn’t want to hurt him anymore than I already have. He begged me to go back to him, he would constantly text me every morning when he was going to work, he would text me during the day and when he finished. He would call me several times but I had to ignore every single text and call. I was going to take with a gay guy friend and someone must have told him I was with a guy so he accused me of having sex with this guy and he became abusive, on valentine’s day he sent me a text saying happy valentine’s day, that he missed me and hoped that the guy I was ‘with’ made me happier than he ever did. He would call and go off at me, call me really nasty names and everything.
    Eventually it all stopped, I decided to move to a different state with a friend, lived there for a year and a half, never heard from him. I had his Facebook account blocked, he made a new one but never tried to add me but I would still block it. Then I moved to another state and I got a new boyfriend. It has been over 2 years now since the breakup with my ex and on Saturday I was scrolling through my newsfeed on Facebook and occasionally people come up in your suggestions to add them and I seen my exes name and it was him and another girl in the picture so I stalked him and her and they are in a relationship. I was shocked to see that because during the breakup no one I knew who knew him told me anything about him or what he was doing which made it a lot easier but seeing this made me feel a bit gutted, I guess it is because I never knew what he was doing throughout the break up. I didn’t tell my recent partner because it’s not fair bringing up exes, plus I didn’t want him to think I still care about my ex. I don’t, I’m glad I’m out of that relationship. I was just so shocked. I don’t remember having any dreams on Saturday night but last night I did.

    It was weird…
    I don’t remember every detail but he was in a hospital bed, he looked like he was on drugs (because he started doing drugs in our relationship) I walked into his room and said hello, I had this cardboard poster thing with pictures of us and I think I had things that he did to me and how he made me feel. He didn’t really speak but it looked like he wanted to. He would check the door making sure his new girlfriend wasn’t coming to visit. I told him that I have no feelings for you anymore and I have a new boyfriend, I just randomly seen your Facebook page and couldn’t figure out why you were still in my head, he didn’t respond, I told him I had to go, he tried to say something but he couldn’t get the words out. I walked out, I didn’t see anyone as I left but in my dream his girlfriend was around the corner and seen that I had visit so she walked in to see him and asked who I was and what I wanted. No idea what he told her but I was at the end of the corridor and I turner back towards his room and seen her talking to him and she was smiling a lot. I then went back home, my partner came home from work but I didn’t tell him where I was, everything was good.
    The rest of my dream doesn’t really make any sense to me.
    I saw him and asked him if he wanted a lift home, he got into my car. There wasn’t much conversation, I asked if he wanted to be dropped all the way home or to just be dropped near his home, he was fine with me dropping him wherever. Somehow my partner seen me with my ex in the car and I said that I seen him and asked if he wanted a lift, he was fine with it. I don’t know what happened next.
    I remember we met up somewhere not sure where and he gave me back the cardboard with the pictures and stuff on it that I gave him but he added stuff on there. He wrote how he loved me a lot and I told him that I’m happy with my partner now and by the looks of it he was happy with his new girlfriend, he also had on there that he was sorry with what he put me through. Then there was this event, I didn’t know what it was at the time but there were lots of people and his brother showed up and was sitting at the table me and my ex was at but he didn’t say anything to me, I always got along with his brother and we have had a conversation on Facebook since the breakup but we haven’t talked since that time so I decided I was going to leave but my ex said no and said I could stay if I wanted to but then I was like no your mum hates me and if she sees me… As I said that his mum walked past me. Then I seen his younger sister and she hugged me, we talked and the event was her wedding, but she still looked 14, which was the last time I saw her, now she would at least be 17. I woke up not long after that. It’s all I could think about because the dream felt so real. I started thinking about my ex and his partner. I thought about the cute things they have been writing on Facebook, reminds me of when we would do it and I just thought to myself, he will do the same thing to her like he did to me. And that was it.
    I then googled what my dream meant because I felt weird that I dreamt about him. I also just need to get it all off my chest so I wrote it all down.

  9. Mariah Briard on

    I periodically have dreams about my first love. I am currently married and haven’t been with my first love for 3 years. We dated for 2 years and were pretty passionate. The most recent dream
    I had was about choosing over my husband or my ex. I was hurt by things they were both doing so I couldn’t decide who would be better for me. My ex hadn’t called me and I clearly remember my husband saying “why didn’t you just call her because now she is upset.” So I don’t know how to interpret that. I often have dreams about wanting to be friends with my ex or rekindle our relationship. Honestly I do wish my ex and I were still friends out of the situation even though he did not meet my needs. Why is it so difficult to resolve these old feelings?

  10. I have had a recurring dream about my ex since she finished with me over 10 years ago… My dreams always involve being invited into her new family home and us talking, i am made welcome and she tells me we should keep in touch, her youngest son is pleased to see me. These dreams feel so real, when i wake up and realise it’s just a dream i am left feeling utterly empty and alone. In reality i moved on and eventually got married, I would not want to hurt my wife for the world so why do these dreams of my ex keep haunting me? I just know when we split i was devastated, i didn’t just lose her love but also her 2 sons who i had become attached to. These dreams keep reminding me how much i still miss and love her. I know i shouldn’t but I also find myself looking her up on social media sites and wishing i had the courage to hit the add friend or follow button.

    • i know exactly how you feel. i mean my ex of 12 or so years still appears in my dreams today. i am married to someone else and what’s even crazier is the fact that my ex and i work in the same place*shivers*

  11. Last night I had a dream about my ex, and he proposed. I don’t remember much of the dream other than feelings of happiness.

    I have been thinking about him a lot recently, feeling like I miss him, wondering if I made a mistake but then I remember why I broke it off in the first place.
    We have been separated for over five months.
    He was my first real love, to the point where I was blinded for three years. In my eyes he was perfection. I saw myself worthless in comparison, I had lots to work to do in his eyes and he made that clear. I also had feelings that made me sick to my stomach about his loyalty (but no proof) I did start to see through the cracks eventually, then I decided to call it off.

    When I did he changed his tune about me and how important I was to him as well as telling me he thought we would get married.

    My feelings for him are so strong and I hurt everyday but he really wasn’t good for me.

    Why would he be popping up in my dreams? It’s not helping with my already conflicted heart and mind situation.

  12. I Dreamed That My Ex Showed Up To My House . And He Had Asked Me To Go Outside So I Did We Were Talking & Laughing &Just Having A Good Time. Me & My Ex Broke Up About 2 Years Ago … Well Next In My Dream My Recent Boyfriend Shows Up I Walked To The Car And He Asked Me Who Was That I Said It’s My Ex My Bf Noded His Head & Just Woked Up Because I Just Didn’t Wanted This Dream To Continue .. Does Anyone Know Why I Dreamed This?

  13. I often dream of my ex. We are broken up about 4 years after 4 years together. Bad breakup and unresolved feelings. He would never speak to me again. Yet I dream of him often. I have no one new yet. I have very lucid dreams and I believe the author captures many of the reasons that I dream of my ex. It reminds me of happier times that I miss, I miss having someone near me, I have other issues going on in my life that bring him to mind and many of the comments made by the author.
    Sometimes relationships are soundly resolved and the people separate and move on with their own lives. However this is not always the case.
    I think the dreams can be healing and instructive. As the author says, if we are thinking about our ex in our waking lives, sometimes our subconscious mind (our dreaming lives) help us to process what has happened. It does not necessarily mean the person is coming back. Maybe just that part of me that was left behind is “regrouping” and reflecting, effectively trying to recover from the fracture in my world that this event created.
    I find dreams a very friendly pathway to insight, guidance and healing. And sometimes they are just amusing or inspiring. And sometimes they are frightening. I embrace them all as a pathway to self awareness and a connection to the divine. Sometimes they can be a “visit ” with someone who I will never see in my waking life again. I find the dream life to be fascinating.

    • Thank you for posting. Reading your story made me think of my own. I have been broke up with my gf for 5 yrs..im in a new relationship and have been for about 4 yrs. Things are great between us. Oddly enough, in the past my ex lived with us(a yr ago). Things didnt end well…i had to have them move…them being her her kids and grandson. This last yr ive been doing fine. Ive realized how toxic they are to my family. They manipulate…use…steal. Lately, maybe 3 times she has been in my dreams. Sometimes were arguing or something of that nature. But last night, i had a dream we were making love. Im not in love with her, nor do i want her back. I dont see me EVER talking to her again. Why am i having theae dreams. I hate it. It makes it hard to move on. Ive asked god to please not let me dream of her. All the other times, the dreams disnt bother me, i shook them off and went about my day, but the one last night had me anxious, irritated, frustrated, i spent the day off and on crying. I dont want to dream of her anymore…i want to move on and i cant with these dreams im having. Plz help!!!!

  14. I had a dream about my ex a few nights ago. It was really strange but peaceful at the same time. in my dream I was given some tasks by my father to go repair something that I have never fixed before. I felt so overwhelmed and stressed out so I went to go lay down on the bed and out of no where, arms were wrapped around me and a female’s hands were playing with my hands which was something my ex used to do. The woman that I presumed was my ex then says “I love you too”. After I heard those words, I got up from the bed (still in my dream) and went to go work on whatever. I didn’t feel stressed or overwhelmed anymore. When I heard those words in my dream I knew it was my ex’s voice. Funny thing is that I didn’t see her face in my dream or even say the words “I love you” to her to begin with. Like I said earlier, strange but really peaceful to feel and hear from her in my dream…

  15. I dreamed that my ex wife and me were trying to find somewhere safe as the world was in the grip of a zombie holocaust. We were in a high rise building trying to escape,my last memory of the dream is I’m running towards a vehicle, but my ex is behind me falling from the building we were in, as she is falling she is calling me on my mobile phone telling me she loves me and was sorry.
    During our 15year relationship she committed adultery, I ended our marriage and divorced her because of this.

  16. My ex and I have been through a rather messy break-up, but have now not been together in a committed relationship for over a year and a half. However, we still remain good friends and we did continue to do things together that maybe normal friends would not. I feel that, in large part, we have stayed friends because I have been able to put up with the way she twists things and manipulates me to feel upset if she says that I have done something wrong, even though we are both actually single. Because I do love her, I always try to please her and not upset her, however I am a lad who cannot help myself around other girls when I am single, so I end up apologising quite a lot. I probably shouldn’t have to do this, but that’s okay. Anyway… A couple of weeks ago I finally plucked up the courage to stand up to her. She became really jealous when I stopped replying and “didn’t give her as much attention as I used to”. She then asked to be exclusive with me and this was good for about a month, until she went back to being herself. I then straight up said that this was unfair because I had given up a lot to go back into this, considering I struggle with opening to people with my feelings, especially when I have suppressed them because I was hurt before. She then ended it again. I sent her a couple of long messages detailing where I was at in my life and what I wanted and what I thought of her and then gave her some space to make her mind up. She still hasn’t and we haven’t spoke for a few days. However, last night I had a dream that we accidentally saw each other in a place that I do not know. She kissed me on the cheek and was being seductive, and I was pushing her away to ask what was going on. She then got annoyed and told me she was seeing someone else now and that he makes her way happier than I ever did. I then woke up. What does this mean? 🙁

    • Move on honestly because she isn’t going to change even if she’s trying her hardest. Something’s just can’t change even if the person tries it’s very hard to mold someone the way you want them to be. It’s either you expect her for her nasty attitude and help her help herself or just end it completely because you are just wasting more of your time. I’ve been in the same situation for like two years but not anymore I’m pretty happy and over the person though I still love them it’s not that easy but promise you’ll find someone better.

  17. Ive been dreaming for the past few nights about an ex that i was with about two years ago. Im currently in a new relationship that will be going on 2 years as well in march. In the first dream we met again and started talking. I grasped her hand and she took mine in hers. We went to her house and say and talked for a while. The next fee dreams were about going on dates. What do theses dreams mean? I feel like i want her back and i dont know what to do.

  18. I had this dream A few times about my long distance ex-boyfriend . We have been split up 6 moth and we are in the same friendship group. Everytime I have the dream it start with just all meet up with our friends going out and having a good time . Then me and my ex start talking like old times and then her get a bit drunk and he end up telling me he has made mistake I want to be back and how he miss me too and is sorry for they way he finish me . The thing is I would love to get back with him . So can anyone help me , what dose this mean.

    • now.. approximately how long is 6 moth’s? its only accurate if we know how long a moth is before we answer your question.

  19. I had a dream that my ex wife came to visit me.. When i sat down all her words where just jibberish (like the parents on charlie brown) as i sat there i turned my head to show her the tattoo on my neck of my fiancees name the jibberish kept up i got up and walked away… What does it mean

  20. 2 nights ago I had a dream that my ex girlfriend brought me to hang out at some guys house with a house full of people. Teenage kind of thing. All the lights were off but people were still visible. Playing music, drinking smoking laughing talking loud. I didn’t trust the whole scene. I felt like someone was going to attempt to harm me. I felt like she must be talking to the guy(who owns the apartment) behind my back , why else were we there ? …
    -Last night I had a dream with the same ex whom is recently my ex AND an ex from like 7TH. GRADE. I’m 23 now. We were on a bus riding home and I ended up leaving with the older ex. That 7th grade ex cheated on me and was very distrustful on many occasions but I will say that she always catered to me. Made sure I ate, had a couple dollars, was in a good mood etc.. In my defense I’ve never dreamt of 7th grade ex before. What’s going on !? Anyone ??

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    I’ve been having this dream for some time now about my ex.this is d 5th time I’m seeing him in my dream and we were d way we use to be.
    since we broke up I’ve not been able to get a replacement cos he was my best friend and everything and can’t help myself but rather living a single life.
    though we’re in talking terms just as a mere friend but him appearing to my dream most night is what I can’t tell.please what do I do?

  22. I had a dream that my ex husband came back to me. He was so sorry what he did to me. He was so warm and gave me bunch of tight hugs. he swore to never give up on me anymore and always fight for me. we moved together and started new life. We were so happy,. then he wanted to take me for shopping ,. Then i woke up. wish I could sleep longer,.
    He was the only one who broke up, without saying anything. He just decided to leave me, no explanation, nothing. I realize that I miss him.

  23. Independent Strong,Single Momma on

    I had a dream that I was hanging out with my ex who is also my sons father and was my first love, it wasn’t romantic, just hanging out and my son although three now and at the choice of his father has never met him was a baby again and my ex didn’t really seemed interested in the baby but was at least amiable toward him, if only my son were so fortunate in real life, my ex took us to some comedy club to hang out and my ex’s father all of a sudden was spotted by my ex who was trying not to be seen by him and then his father spotted us and was relieved to see that my ex was hanging out with me and said it was so good to see me, and being that he was so welcomingi introduced him to his grandson, something I haven’t had the chance to do in real life, and he was so enamored with this baby who really does take after them so much, we were so busy getting acquainted I hadn’t noticed my ex take off, my son got cranky from all the people laughing at the comedy spot so I scooped him up and decided to take him for some fresh air and it was so nice having the finally introduced grandfather so warm and accommodating and impressed with everything about my son including how quickly he calmed down once he was back in my arms…. We walked out side and around the peremiter and then spotted my sons father by a back stairwell and he was angry so I walked over to him, instinctivly knowing he was mad about his “abandoned child meeting his father” so I came over, still in a good mood from the same occurrence that was making him angry and confronted him firmly and then persuaded the conversation off focus with innocent jokes derailing his mood and seeing him physically lighten up, then I woke up.

    I realize that it’s my desire to get along with my ex and his family for my sons sake and I’ve attempted to do so a couple times with only firey opposition .Why does my subconscious keep filling me with false hope? Is there another reason why these types of dreams straggle in?

  24. I’m currently in a 11 month relationship. We recently got engaged and our looking for our first house together. She is my bestfriend/soulmate, and everything else you could ask for in a partner. Yet i find my exes creeping into my dreams more and more.

    They always start the same my ex (or exes) stating how lucky they are, and how much they love me and will never do anything to lose me. Then it turns to them saying how they have met someone else and i didnt mean anything. And the last part of my dreams are always of my current lover doing the exact thing.

    seeing as we have know issues in our relationship, its very easy to say, my fears of the past are stalking my dreams.

  25. I had a dream that me and my exboyfriend got back together we where do sweet. He would always hug me and never let me go. It like he loved me so much that he wanted to be with me forever. Then his exgirlfriend come in the picture they start to fight she push him and he fail on something on the ground I wire the one when they make a house or building it poked him right through him. I was trying to look for a phone to call 911.I couldn’t hardly talk I was nervous and shaking to much then I heard siren and I run out the building. They where leaving i thought I saw him in the car I screamed out his exgirlfriend name and they stop when I looked he was not there. Then there was this little boy that stop me for a few minutes. Then I start running to go to the hospital. Then I feel something cold touching my hand and I felt he was died. I started crying I just see his hand touching my hand and I woke up with tears in my eyes and start to crying I saw my whole dream. What does it mean?

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