“Last night I dreamt of my Boyfriend!” Ahh, your boyfriend! I knew we’d get to this someday. Dreaming about a boyfriend can mean a number of things depending on the situation and circumstances of the dream. This article will help you understand some of the symbols surrounding these dreams. The meaning of boyfriend dreams will depend heavily on the current circumstances of your life.
What do these Dreams Mean?
When you dream of a specific person such as a boyfriend, you’ll need to concentrate more on the other symbols in your dream as your boyfriend can represent several different aspects or people in your life. A boyfriend can be a friend, enemy, lover, companion, or the symbol of any of these things in the emotions. If he threatens bodily harm, however, it might be best to take this as a literal, true dream, and act according.
Dreams involving boyfriends can tap into several different emotions and reasoning’s behind their presence in your dreams. Often these kinds of dreams that include your boyfriend reflect real life concerns you have with them whether they are good or bad. These dreams often show the underlying feelings, emotions or fears you have with the relationships, or perhaps portray your own struggle with your feelings in certain situations. It could uncover fears for the future or reveal a fixation with the past.
If in the dream your boyfriend is dead, that may symbolize that you think the relationship is dead and over. It could also mean you feel stagnated in the relationship; your needs and feelings are not being recognized or prohibited. This kind of dream may suggest that you break off the relationship since it is not a positive one. A boyfriend leaving you in a dream may mean that certain aspects of your life are no longer helpful or supportive for you. Subsequently, the arrival of a new boyfriend represents new situations and aspects that will be helpful and supportive for you. If the boyfriend in your dreams is loving and kind then that could mean you subconsciously believe that you are a person worthy of being loved. It is a sort of way for you to reaffirm your love for yourself.
“Dreams involving boyfriends can tap into several different emotions…”
Should you dream of dating a friend’s boyfriend, it is not necessarily about the boy himself. It may have more to do with slight envious feelings for you friend. You may desire certain qualities that they possess. It could also mean that you wish to be closer to said friend. If you are dreaming about having another boyfriend there is a good chance that there is something that the ‘dream boyfriend’ is doing that you want you real life boyfriend to do. You should try talking to your boyfriend about these certain aspects and desired changes.
If you dream about your boyfriend being gay or that he doesn’t love you anymore than it can represent feelings about insecurities that you have in the relationship. It may also mean that your relationship is headed in a new direction and that you are having anxiety and fears about this changing situation.
Dreams about an Ex Boyfriend
Dreaming of an ex-boyfriend may show unresolved feelings of love, or a current unsatisfying relationship. The ex-boyfriend may be a symbol of all the hopes of love that you desire and are not being granted by the current relationship. Alternatively, seeing an ex-boyfriend in a dream may also suggest that the return of a problem or a bad habit. It could also be your subconscious warning you that you are recommitting bad habits, perhaps dating someone like your ex-boyfriend that wasn’t good for you.
If you have a enduring desire for your ex-boyfriend, than dreaming about them may represent the desire for something that you can’t have. Another, simple explanation for dreaming about an ex-boyfriend may be that you just have unresolved feelings for them, or that your current boyfriend reminds you of your ex, either positive or negative.
Dreaming about a Boyfriend Usually Indicates Feelings
All in all dreaming about your boyfriend can simply be a reflection about your feelings for him and the nature of your relationship. If in the dream things seem rocky, then you should assess your relationship. If in the dream everything is rose colored and wonderful, then you are happy with how things are and shouldn’t worry. In either case, dreaming about love interests indicates you have feelings for them, one way or another.
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