Cheating Dreams – What They Really Mean

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“He was cheating on me in my dream!” Cheating dreams can invoke a very strong emotional response when you wake up from the dream. Most people can remember a dream when they woke up in a pile of sweat, furious at the person lying next to them.

Unbeknownst to your partner, you just had a dream that they were in the arms of another woman or man. If one spouse accuses the other of cheating because of a dream, it can cause a lot of problems in a relationship.

To understand why you have a cheating dream, it is important to interpret the dream in the context of your waking life. If your spouse is constantly flirting with other people around you, these dreams can indicate an untrustworthy partner.

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Young man text messaging with young woman sleepingDreaming about cheating or being cheated on is one of the most commonly reported, and most disturbing dreams, for people in relationships.

These dreams can be so real and vivid that you can have all the feelings and emotions that you would have if your partner did cheat.

In some cases, these dreams turn out to be simple insecurities or fears within the dreamer. However, cheating dreams can also indicate an unfaithful partner in a relationship. As the dreamer, you are best equipped to uncover the hidden truth inside your dream. Related Dreams: Boyfriend Dreams or Girlfriend Dreams

“The subconscious mind can detect hidden signals that your conscious mind ignores or refuses to acknowledge..”

Foreshadowing Dreams about Cheating

When I was a child, I had a dream that foreshadowed my parents getting a divorce. One night I had a dream that my mom was being taken by a man that was connected to our family. When I woke up from this dream, I was visibly shaken and told my parents about it.

They both assured me that it was a nightmare, but little did I know my mom was having an affair at the time. This dream was so vivid and clear that I couldn’t get it out of my head. Three weeks after the dream, my dad found out that my mom was cheating on him, with the family friend I saw in my dream.

Cheating DreamThinking back to this memory, this dream was my subconscious mind trying to warn me of the impending disaster about to hit my family. Although my conscious mind did not sense any problem with my parent’s relationship as a child, my subconscious mind was reading all of the signals that my brain refused to acknowledge.

It was my subconscious mind that compiled all the hidden signs and portrayed them in a dream that revolved about my mom’s unhappiness in the marriage.

Whenever a dream about a cheating spouse, boyfriend, or girlfriend turns out to be real, it often means you have a strong sixth sense of the things around you. Your unconscious mind is better at reading the subtle signs that your conscious mind has either overlooked or simply blocked out to avoid being hurt. Even though some people choose to remain ignorant of their cheating spouse in their waking mind, sometimes the subconscious will attempt to provide clues to infidelity.

An example of this is a wife that fails to notice that her husband is staying out longer after work. Although the husband could have displayed visible signs of infidelity, the wife’s conscious mind remained ignorant to any of these signs. To awaken the conscious mind, the wife could have a dream that her husband was in the arms of another woman.

Sometimes these cheating dreams occur to provide a warning of something that may happen in the future. Your dreams could be providing you clues that your relationship has grown stale and needs to be revived before it burns out.

Detect a Cheating Partner: If you suspect that your cheating dream might be telling you something about your partner, then I recommend this book called how to Catch a Cheat. I actually know someone that read the book and discovered her partner wasn’t cheating, which allowed their relationship to grow even stronger. 

Being Cheated On

In most cases, cheating dreams represent our fears and insecurities that we have about ourselves. You could have issues with trust that is causing your subconscious mind to create a dream about your partner cheating. Some dreamers have deep insecurity and anxiety about themselves that are reflected in their dreams.

Dreaming that your partner is cheating on you, usually, represents some kind of anxiety or worry that you have about your personal feelings towards yourself. You could have anxiety over your physical appearance, or be worried about your future together.

When someone is cheating on you, it can also represent a lack of control in your life. If you are the type of person that likes to have everything planned, cheating dreams can disrupt your feeling of being in control. Cheating dreams can also represent your fear of failure on a project that you have been working on.

Cheating on Someone Else

When we cheat on someone in our dream the first thing we feel is guilt. Why would I do that? I love my partner?! Cheating on someone is just as emotional as being cheating on because of the strong feelings of guilt associated with the dream.

These feelings are amplified if you were experiencing pleasure and happiness in the dream. Dreaming about being a cheater can indicate a feeling of guilt in other areas in your life. There is another possibility that your conscious mind is entertaining thoughts of cheating and these are reflected in your dream state.

If a person is constantly thinking about cheating on their spouse or partner, chances are they might have a dream about it. Sometimes these dreams reveal the painful impact of cheating and allow the dreamer to experience the guilt without actually going through the motions.

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Cheating dreams can represent self-fulfillment dreams of dreamers who are missing something in their lives. If your partner is not very affectionate, you might have a dream about cheating to satisfy your inner desire to be loved by someone.

Interpreting and Understanding Cheating Dreams

When trying to analyze a cheating dream it is important for you to look at the specific situations and circumstances that you encounter in the dream.

Is there a particular person that stands out in the dream?

You should always take note of the specific locations, people, objects and places in the dream. Remember that your conscious mind can influence your dream.

For example, if you are jealous of a coworker because of her good looks, this jealousy could be reflected in a dream of your spouse having an affair that same co-worker. Take note of any conscious thoughts that could influence your dream about your partner.

Is your dream a reflection of your insecurities and thoughts that you have in your waking life? Remember that most cheating dreams are not a reflection of reality, but are reflective of our insecurities. Although some dreams can offer an omen of truth, it is important to thoroughly analyze your dream before you come to the conclusion that your partner is cheating on you.

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Stephen is a self confessed dream junkie that loves all things dream related. He is a writer for Dream Stop and has been working in the field of dreams for the past decade. He believes that the YOU are the only person who can truly understand the meaning of your dreams. You have to look inside your inner thoughts to find the hidden truths in your dream. These interpretations are for entertainment purposes only. Stephen's interpretations should be considered an opinion, not professional advice.

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  1. My cheating dream
    I lived in a mansion with my husband. Our mutual friend Jonny (he’s a little bit more my friend then my husbands but in waking life I consider him my brother) called and asked us if he could crash at the mansion for a few nights. My husband says no. But I feel it’s not a big deal since we have such a big house. Jessie(husband) storms off to our room angrily. It’s early the sun hasn’t set yet. Jonny arrives we are in the basement. It’s finished, looks like a huge living room. Giant tv on the wall. We are sitting on the sofa. Talking idk what about. He kisses me, I like it a lot. We kiss harder but then I stop. Guilt pierces my soul like a knife. I walk away. I go to take a shower and cool off. I yell “if you need anything I’ll be upstairs.” He says “ before you go can you please help me make this tv work I’m trying to watch a movie” I come down. Wearing nothing but a rob. He’s naked laying on the sofa. I have to many feeling to describe. I don’t know what happens next. There’s not sex scene so I can’t say if there is or isn’t one. I’m walking up the basement steps. My husband greets me at the top with a very pissed off look. He yells I knew it. I feel guilt like poison through my veins. I say “idk what your talking about. I got him some pillows and blankets and then after I showered UPSTAIRS he asked me if I could put a movie on for him”. My mom appears she may have been here the entire time. She looks at me disappointed. He asks me what movie I put on. I think and I think so many weird nonsensical names pop into my head. I hear my moms voice telepathically telling me to please just say a name any name. I stay silent as they stair at me with anger, disappointment, and disbelief. I don’t know what to say or how to make this go away. I know what ever I say they aren’t going to believe me. I don’t even think I believe me. It goes blank from there. I wake up do a reality check to make sure I’m not dreaming anymore. I’m not. But the guilt still flows through me like poison. I look at my sleeping husband. Thanking god that it was all just a dream. But still feeling guilty enough to throw up. I lay back down attempting to fall back to sleep but scared of what may await me in the dream realm.

  2. I just woke up to a dream where I was exploring my new place with my two best friends new and my boyfriend, when I walk in on my boyfriend face deep in one of my best friends. The night before I woke up because I had a dream that i walked back into my bedroom and my boyfriend was in bed with another girl, this one I’m not sure who she was. It’s drivin me crazy because I trust my boyfriend and after reading this, it sounds like i have insecurities of my own that I’m unaware about! My boyf and I have a strong connection and a strong relationship. I just don’t understand… I’ve had this dream two times in a row

  3. I have constant dreams every night that my boyfriend is cheating on me. We have a baby together and in one of my dreams he kicked us both out like he didn’t care.. having these dreams every night I just hate him and I don’t know if it’s true! He used to talk to loads of girls and have their photos on his phone and hide it from me but he claims he’s changed 🙁 what do I do???

  4. i’ve had atleast 3 dreams in a row about my boyf cheating on me with this girl i’ve known for a while but never really spoken to but in one of the dreams he told me that he wanted something with a girl that had fell down the stairs in school so i asked who and he wouldn’t tell me and then the girl walked over to him started speaking to him and immediately he lost all attention from me and started speaking to her so i asked are u who fell downstairs and she went yeah but idk if this is just me overthinking or not pls help

  5. I’ve had 2 dreams about my new boyfriend cheating on me with my best friend which happens to be his ex. My best friend and him dated about two years ago. She said it was okay to go out with him. The first dream I had was that we moved in together and I was at work and I came home and saw them in bed together. And last night I had a dream that my boyfriend and i and my best friends boyfriend were at a concert. My friends boyfriend went to the bathroom and my boyfriend didn’t know i was standing right there. He picked up my best friend and asked her if she wanted to be his again and she said yes. Later in the dream my boyfriend told me he loved me and i said no you don’t and he asked what i meant and i said i saw him and my best friend together and asked her to be yours again. He said it was just a joke. And then I woke up. I don’t know if i am having the dream because of my insecurities. Because tbh i think she is way prettier than me.

  6. I had a dream I cheated on my boyf with my best friends older brother. We were just talking then he pushed me into the grass (it was a nice day in ny backyard) and we started kissing. At first I just went with it and welcomed it but it felt weird Bc I kept remembering my boyf then I closed my mouth, and after that I felt guilty within the dream

  7. I had a dream I cheated on my boyf with my best friends older brother. We were just talking then he pushed me into the grass (it was a nice day in ny backyard) and we started kissing. At first I just went with it and welcomed it but it felt weird Bc I kept remembering my boyf then I closed my mouth, and after that I felt guilty within the dream.

  8. I had a dream that i was at disneyland with my old school classmates and my boyfriend. Usually it’s just my boyfriend and i that go to disneyland but in my middle school days before i knew my current boyfriend i would go with my choir class. Anyways, i went off into disneyland with 2 of my girlfriends to go on rides and i didn’t see where my boyfriend went. My two friends and i tried to go on some rides but i didn’t have the right ticket to get on the rides, so then i ask my friends where andy my boyfriend is and they take me to him. I see him sitting down having a picnic with this girl charity in my class. He was talking to her closely. I knew at that moment he was cheating on me, he was talking about how she’s so pretty and how her jewelry was pretty as well. I started screaming crying throwing a fit punching him, I was a wreck. I felt like everything I worked for in this relationship was down the drain and in the dream he didn’t care he showed no sympathy and charity was just sitting there having a laughing smile on her face.

  9. I cheated on my boyfriend. I didn’t tell him. Then I started dreaming of him cheating on me. I wonder if it was just my insecurities because I cheated on him and I thought he might do the same to me. I had SEVERAL dreams about that

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